"Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." (Corinthians 13:1-7)
In that same chapter is the following:
"Shun fornication! Every sin that a person commits is outside the body; but the fornicator sins against the body itself." (Corinthians 6:18).
As well as:
"Judge for yourselves: is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head unveiled? Does not nature itself teach you that if a man wears long hair, it is degrading to him, but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering." (Corinthians 11:13-15).
Also, "...it is shameful for a woman to speak in church." (14:35). No justification whatsoever.
How am I supposed to make sense of this ridiculosity?